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Shall you marry someone you can’t live without? Yes, and yet it’s a hairy topic. What I mean by that is if you are in a healthy secure relationship, definitely marry the person you can’t live without. Where it gets hairy is if you are in an unhealthy, insecure relationship, and think/feel/believe you can’t live […]

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple,...