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I’m certain I have blind spots I don’t know about–that’s what makes them blind. I hope my husband, family, and friends will tell me (kindly and calmly) about my blind spots. I’m certain you have blind spots, too. You can ask people you’re close to about them. You can dig them up on your own. […]

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple,...