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“To keep your marriage brimming, With love in the loving cup, Whenever you’re wrong admit it; Whenever you’re right, shut up.” – Ogden Nash Why is it a good idea to admit when you’re wrong? Here are several reasons: 1. It creates honesty and integrity in your relationship which leads to openness and transparency and […]

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About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple,...